Q:Do you agree or disagree this statement? letting a friend makes a mistake better than saying or doing something that may destroy your friendship.
As we know, having a close friend enable us to rely on and share feelings about different things. But on the other hand, our friends just average people that may make a mistake at intervals. Although he were Einstein, he would make mistakes as well. So l believe that letting a friend makes a mistake better than saying or doing something that may destroy our friendship.
As for ourselves, we make mistakes also. Why don't we learn to forgive others?Moreover, they are our friends.For example, Lisa is my best friend. One day, when we walk along the street, we were talking about what teacher said today. We had different ideas about it. Then we argued with each other in high voice, the passers by looked at us with strange sight. I felt so barrassed that I admitted I was wrong. She stopped arguing and we just stood there with silence. After a moment, she said,'I'm sorry to you. I don't want to argue with you. I'm wrong too.Could you forgive me?' Obviously,I said yes. Eventually, our friendship has been more firm since that quarrel .
But another thing that I regret today happened to me was an unforgettable memory. She was ever my best friend . We usually shared secrets with each other. until one day, I realized that she told my secrets to others. I was angry with her. I thought she wasn't trusted anymore and I prepared to have a talk with her. when I talked to her, she thought it wasn't her fault. Then we had words with each other and she said I wasn't her friend anymore. Hearing that, I was astonished and couldn't believe what she said. After that, we didn't say a word to each other.
Above all, they turn out that letting friends make a mistake better than saying or doing something that may destroy our friendship.As a saying goes,' A friend indeed is a friend in need'.So maybe it's a best way to solve problem that learning to forgive.