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maggielangUID: 3145885

废话不多说，总之菜鸟一枚，欢迎各位大侠多多指点。

Only child or brother and sister

Family plays a very important role in shaping the child’s inclination of and building their characters. Many people are in favor of big family with more that one child, while other people believe that the only child family creates the better environment in terms of child rearing. Both of the cases have their advantages and disadvantages.

For the big family, it is clear that children have companions ever since they are very young. Without having to rely on their parents, children play with each other and take care of each other, occasionally they exchange thought and idea with their brothers and sisters, which really gives them opportunity not only to learn how to be attendant and responsible, but also to help them to build up confidence. This kind of relations keep bonding them together and always offer them sense of security. They also act as lifetime friends for each other, with whom you can share your pleasure and reduce your tensions. As they grow up, they tend to be more considerate about others and are likely to possess more interpersonal skills naturally.

However, big families also suffer from their disadvantages. Since taking care of a numbers of children could be a tough(challenging) job for a mother, it is more than likely she might ignore their need and feeling occasionally, which may lead to unpleasant misunderstanding in the first place. For instance, children may think themselves as a burden for their parents sometimes. Without feeling the tender care all the time, children might regard them not important enough. Consequently may cause unexpected result.

Another family mode is only child family. It is not doubt that parents can put 100% resource to their only child without sparing any money and efforts. The child can always enjoy the peculiar care and the extraordinary love, Of course they might have better opportunity to dress up in new clothes instead of the hand-me-down cloth, and can always have their parent to satisfy his request as soon as they ask. To some extend, they dominate the parents’ live. They are the king or queen of the family.

For all those benefit they can enjoy, they feel lonely sometimes. They go back home from school, there is no one to share their feelings and play with. Moreover, since they have got all the attentions from their parents, they tend to be self-centered and always pose as a cocky children. They utterly have no sensibility and perception of rights and needs of others.

As for me, I prefer to have a big family. Besides what I have indicated above, it also provides me with warm and cozy feelings.

bqianaUID: 193168

雅思题目？

maggielangUID: 3145885

2# bqiana
copy paste 时错了，题目是which is better situation for child? the family with only child or the big family?

bqianaUID: 193168

很托福的感觉，雅思题库里有这道？偶孤陋了

静思EllenUID: 3172008

偶也是新手，囧