关于接受offer后反悔，看看老外们是怎么看的。

zhengshuhuaUID: 2636723

http://www.fluther.com/118576/what-happens-if-i-want-to-reject-accepted-offer-from-a/最近很多童鞋纠结这个问题，包括我在内，看看老外是怎么看待这个问题的，呵呵。
Q: I accepted an offer from a university but got accepted into another university that I prefer going to. I want to reject the accepted offer they gave me prior the offer I received later on. What should I do?? Will there be any negative consequences??


A: If you have already sent a letter of acceptance, just send them another letter asking to be released.
They would much rather release you now when they have time to fill your slot, than hold it open for you and you not show up.

希望对大家有帮助，但是本人觉得在正式sign offer letter的时候还是要慎重，尽量不要伤RP。
希望对大家有用

zhengshuhuaUID: 2636723

能不能帮忙回个帖呢，亲:loveliness:

doctralUID: 2838842

帮你来回帖了 谢谢分享哈！

wang_come_onUID: 2158809

老美对这种问题看的很开，本来就是你情我愿的问题，假如一方不愿意了，趁早说开

注册一个账号UID: 3255597

不错~~楼主辛苦了

dhsdzllUID: 3258830

当然最终只能选一所学校，其余的必定是拒了。只是，一定要正式回复学校，不能悄无声息就把人家扔那儿了。
这是个礼貌问题，而且是很重要的一个申请环节。
善始善终，不是么？！
谢谢楼主，帮顶~~~

frozen_tearUID: 3048879

说的太对了，就像相亲一样，你情我愿才可以，只要没跟人家发誓不离不弃就不算背叛！

raimonUID: 3244626

感谢楼主，原来从了offer还是可以要求他们release的