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[B]27 Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? People should sometimes do things that they do not enjoy doing. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.[/B]
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I do agree with the statement that people should sometimes do things that they don't enjoy doing. And I would rather go as far as saying that they should try to enjoy things they are forced to do.
To exemplify, consider the following situations. Not all children love to study. Instead, being curious and enthusiastic, they love to explore the world around them, paying less attention to studies and more to other things. Should they be allowed to give up their studies? Certainly not. Or consider a very talented person, say a person with great academic record and excellent analytical skills trying for a job. Suppose the person is introvert but the company's recruitment process demands that he should go in through a group discussion. Should he give up because of this? I would strongly oppose his decision, if he does. Or consider a sportsperson being forced to go in for a drug test, because rules demand him to do so. The person being from a conservative background, feels uncomfortable with this. Should he give up the sport just because he is being forced to do something he doesn't like? Well, I would say no.
So, the point is that there are situations in life, when one has to do something he/she doesn't like. And not doing the thing may have a large impact on his life. So, its sometimes wise to go against one's wishes. I don't advocate that one should always go against one's wishes when he/she is forced to take such decisions. It depends upon the importance and the urgency of a situation. For instance, one might want to quit up a job that one doesn't like. He may, infact he should do so, for perpertually doing something one doesn't like makes one's life miserable. But what if there's a recession in the economy and its hard to find jobs? He, ofcourse should be careful in his decision, and it won't be unwise if he continues with his same, probably boring job.
To conclude, I would say that one should judge a situation according to its merits and make a wise decision whether or not he/she wants to do something which he/she doesn't like. Compromising once in a while is sometimes a better choice.
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Too many he/shes in your essay; still good though!!
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It is our parents who are the first people that make us to do so many things we do not like. The list of all unpleasant chores is lengthy, including doing homework, helping about the house, brushing teeth, getting up early ­- I think everyone has her own specific list. However, when a child grows up, she understands that there were reasons for parents to demand all these things: doing homework helped to study well and get into college, brushing one's teeth prevented tooth decay, and helping about the house developed useful skills and prepared for grown-up life.
Most things that are unpleasant now usually promise greater rewards in the future. Studying instead of going to the cinema eventually leads to a better, more interesting and rewarding job; regular exercise brings fitness, health and a long life; eating low-cholesteral food inhibits cardio-vascular diseases; pregnancy brings a happiness of motherhood, and paying taxes brings social protection.
Doing things one does not like to do is similar to physical exercise; only it trains character, not leg muscles. Overcoming one's own laziness requires determination, giving up bad habits requires will, mastering new skills also develops intellectual flexibility, and admitting mistakes takes courage. These important personal qualities develop little by little and mostly by doing things one does not like, but has to do.
Sometimes doing something you don’t like is important in enjoying life. A person gets used both to good and bad, so with time, pleasure loses its intensity and turns into habit. Contrast refreshes feelings and returns pleasure. Doing unpleasant things makes nice things seem even nicer. Hard work makes rest desired; house chores make evening out a genuine party, a year at the office makes vacation a real holiday.
It is important to keep balance in doing things one does like and does not like. Sometimes a person gets so involved in doing unpleasant things in the pursuit of some distant goal that he loses the very talent for enjoying life. Being with family, traveling to some distant exotic place, and having a child are put off until it is too late. One needs to stop in the everyday rat race, just to look at and admire the world around him, to share several words or thoughts or jokes with his closest people, to make something with his own hands.
In short, one certainly needs to do things he does not like to do, but he still should not forget about life pleasures.
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Because we live in a free society, people are not force to do things that they do not like. And, it is normal for people to reject to do things that are not interesting for them or can hurt them in some way. According to constitution people are free to choose almost all of their actions, to choose a job, style and place of living, hobbies and friends. However, people need to do things sometimes even they do not want or do not like to do. In my view, it is better for people to follow requirements or fulfil a task in some situations than to turn the work down, because that can bring them some positive effects in their personal or professional life or help them to build better relationships with other people.
First of all, it is important to make children to go to school and do their homework, even they refuse to do. Very often children want to skip their homework or classes because they want to do more exiting occupations, like playing computer and video games or watching movies. However, school lessons, homework, quizzes and tests are important part of education, and children has to do their studies, even they are not very exited of doing them. In fact, lessons that children learn in school help them to gain knowledge and develop their skills and abilities, which are important for understanding our society and preparing for future jobs.
Second, people need to obey some rules and follow some requirements in work place even they do not like the rules or feel that requirements are not appropriate for them. Indeed, almost every person in a corporation has his own opinion for a problem or situation. Although co-workers have different views, and sometimes they are irritated from other people's actions, they have to find a way to work well with and listen to others, otherwise they can get fired. Moreover, there are times then people do not feel like job because of family or health problems but they have to do their work, and be patient with their colleagues and clients. If they complain or excuse themselves all the time, they can destroy their own reputation or lose friends.
Third, people have to obey the law even they are against some rules. For instance, most smokers complain the prohibition of smoking in public places. However, if they smoke in these places, the police can arrest them. Moreover, there are some people who do not like people from other races or gender, or ones who obtain higher positions in the society. These people can have their own opinion but their have to behave properly in public places and do not broke the law. Otherwise, they can go to court and receive punishment of several years in jail.
In conclusion, most of the time people can do things that they want to do and enjoy doing them. However, there are some situations when people are restricted by written or unwritten laws to follow some rules and behave in a way that government, society, or people around require.
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Every one remembers that he has done things that he did not like to do, because our life has been so arranged that it is not always possible that all people do just things, which they like to do. Because of potential benefits sometimes it is best that people do what they are not completely convenient with. So, I do agree that it is important for people to sometimes do things that they do not like to do.
When a child is grown up enough to begin to express his wishes and his wills, he will undoubtedly begin to face objections. His parents may think that what he wants is not logical or even hazardous for him. Besides a child is always made do what he does not like to do; for example, he is forced to eat what he thinks is not delicious or he is forced to be hygienic and polite. When he is older, he is forced to go to school that is one of the worst events in every child's life. In his adolescence, every child will certainly realize the benefits of these obligations. By means of these obligations he is healthy, he has learnt public relationship and he is literate. Psychologists say that children who have not faced these obligations would have several personality disorders. Even in adulthood, one may do what he does not like to do and this may be essential for his life. Consider a young man who has finished his school and is forced to do his military service. He may not like to become a soldier, but it would be his first separation from his family that can make him more convenient in his further separations. He will learn to obey what he may consider irrational but is really essential for him. There are also some fatal events that one cannot act as he likes; for example, most people do not like to kill others but a soldier should kill the enemy or he would be killed. Some times people should do things that they do not like to do because there is no other way; for instance, a clerk may dislike his job but unable to find a better job. My own experience shows me that when a person does things that he does not like to do, he would become stronger in his real life events and he would not get upset in his difficulties.
Human life especially our modern life has many aspects that are not completely desirable for us so that we are all obliged to do things that we do not like to do but in some cases we will later understand their benefits. There are also possible unpredictable events in our daily life that require special power to cope with; like wars, earthquakes, etc. It is well known that people who have faced obligations would be much stronger in such events so it is important for people to do things that they do not like to do. |
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