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发表于 2004-1-15 20:40:26
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就是关于夫妇要不要孩子的问题。。
Nowadays it is a prevalent phenomenon that more and more young couples choose not to have any children after marriage. Their behaviors contradict the conventional concept of families and receive wide critisism. However,as far as i am concerned, these young couples have no fault, and i believe the advantages of not having any children outweigh the disadvantages.
Admittedly, A Father, a mother and several children represent an ideal family, but only too ideal to be true. In modern society a young family is quite impossible to rely only on one member, either the husband or the wife. As a result most young couples both have their careers thus they hardly have any time or energy in taking care of their children. Further more, to raise children need huge fiancial expenses, such as medical services and education, which may overwhelm the young parents. More over, for the generations grown up with Hip-Hop, computer games and Vogue, they almost have no idea of how to take the
responsities of parents at all. Many who grown up in a single child family even lack the abilities of everyday chores, then how do we expect them to take care of others?
There is another aspect is that young people are paying more attention to the quality of life than their parents. It is not a matter of whether they live, it is a matter of how they live. More and more young couples prefer to enjoy the first few years in romance and with more freedom, without the distraction of children. At the same time they spend all the income on their own needs, such as housing, cars etc. As for those students that got married before they graduate, they would like to continue their studies, as a result they certainly dont have much" baby-sitting time".
To sum up, there are external reasons and internal reasons that consequently formed more and more "husband and wife" families these days. It is a trend, one can hardly point out it is right or wrong, but one is free to agree with either attitude and choose his way of life. As for me, if i were to marry in the coming few years i would have no plan for a baby at all. I dont feel myself ready for a father yet, i cant afford a baby on the current income and i simply ant more spare time at my own disposal. In one word, i prefer family with no children. |
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