好想Quit了啊,但要又不知前面的路该怎样走?

happybeeUID: 34195

上了三周的课了,下周还有下下周都要小考,因为改了专业,好几堂课一点都听不懂,看了书后也记不住,我觉得好累,不想读了,但是又不敢放弃,家人也不准我这样做,这里的生活就象坐牢,有时觉得都不想再活下去了,我该怎么办啊?我的头都要爆炸了,

babybunnyUID: 160450

I sometimes have the same feeling as you. I just got the medium score of a very easy quiz. The questions of the quiz is all about sth should be memorized from the textbook.
Now I have an essay assignment. I should read 4 chapters of the textbook and at least 5 additional papers, get an idea and finish it in 1 week. I do not know how to finish it. Man!

But we have to go ahead. Most of my friends told me that the first semester is the most difficult one and everything will become easier after you are familiar with it.

//hug mm! Add oil!

summer_rainbowUID: 128306

同感啊!
现在回家有时候急得想哭,书, paper 看不完,作业又一大堆,我周一也要考试,
而且要命的是最近睡眠不好,我得课又是两门在1点到3点的,经常犯困,听课效率不高,回家工作量很大,而且老师讲的不多,让自己学的的不少,真是要命啊! 大家都说很快就适应了,可是我都3周了,感觉还是不好,觉得跟不上.
上周另一门的quiz我就考砸了,还好可以retry(题不同), 第二次考了高分,比较欣慰了.

babybunnyUID: 160450

I have to work in the daytime and the coordinator is very bossy. I feel really uncomfortable when working with him. But I have to work, since i need my advisor to pay my tuition. The code I'm maintaining is really shit!!!!
After working and studying, i feel really exhausted. I do want to have a relax, instead of cooking. But I can't.

Friday is the very day I have waited for a whole week!

happybeeUID: 34195

baby,看了你写的我也无话可说了,我也是要写一篇文章,还是每周都要写的,每天也是要做饭,晚上睡上床就想不要起来了,看你这样说我只有咬牙定了,我真怕哪天忍不住了就跑回国了呢,周五晚不想看书了,准备和妈妈好好说说话了

bearjumpsUID: 108235

The same feeling!!!
I've been here for three weeks, but I'm not sure if I can survive or not. I'm so worried about my tests and my readings.
God !!!!!

pliuyaUID: 66115

大家都好不容易，加油！！！

babybunnyUID: 160450

最初由 happybee 发布
[B]baby,看了你写的我也无话可说了,我也是要写一篇文章,还是每周都要写的,每天也是要做饭,晚上睡上床就想不要起来了,看你这样说我只有咬牙定了,我真怕哪天忍不住了就跑回国了?.

以下省略...... [/B]

嗯，我觉得每天躺在床上的时候最舒服了，终于舒展了。
老公倒是个熟练工，我说要看至少5 papers，写5-6个pages, single space的文章，好难。他居然说，5个pages的东西一下子不就写完了？不过想想，他也不是个很聪明的人，他都能做到的，我们也行！+U!

甜橙UID: 38825

万事开头难，坚持就是胜利。别放弃！在别的国家用别人的语言学习新东西在最初的一段时间肯定是很不容易的。再想想我们这些还没有开始读书的人，不也在努力着吗？

+U!

bearjumpsUID: 108235

Everyone's study is hard. Let's work hard and keep working hard!!!

littlecrowUID: 123550

刚开始的时候都这样，慢慢习惯就好了。刚来的时候整天怕paper读不完，怕作业做不出，怕考试通不过，其实很多事情没有我们想象得那么可怕。那时候每次写个memo一页就得憋半天，现在几十页的essay也能轻松应对了，好几百页的paper也读得飞快了。万事开头难，一定要坚持住。对自己要有信心，过了这个阶段就好了。

smile_stoneUID: 163246

最初由 babybunny 发布
[B]I have to work in the daytime and the coordinator is very bossy. I feel really uncomfortable when working with him. But I have to work, since i need my advisor ..

以下省略...... [/B]

Baby, I have the same schedule like you. My daytime job is tired and heavy. My evening class is heavy and headache. A plus is I do drive 2 hours everyday. Sometimes, after class, when I drive back home, I feel as if I will die in a car accident on the road very easily... I can't control the car after a whole days' 14 hours work and study everyday.

I cried at night every time I drive.  

I can't move now, because my lease is still valid and I do not have money to rent extra room.  My hubby gives me a lot of pressure. I kept on arguing with him to let him know we should move cause he stays at home everyday and can relocate with me. Then I feel everything I should depend on myself. It is too tired to pursuade.

But I do love my major and my boss is good to me. I do cherish my current opportunity. I think I can do it.

lotsfunUID: 166848

hehe.... haha. .. seems clear i am not the only one to feel depressed and bored!  compared with you guys , i am worse, i did not get a reasonable priced apartment till now, I lived in guest house of conference center of my Univ, cost me big money every day, it is money-burning. Besides this, I do not like the study pattern here. I can never  understand why USA's university have so many quiz and exam and homework and project for graudate student to do , which is totally different from what i thought, actually, American education is much more exam-oriented than China's Univ. what i can say : life here is boring . boring. boring. i wanna Yell: AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

happybeeUID: 34195

看来大家都一样啊,只有熬下去了,我还想说的就是:真是要常锻炼身体啊,要不很容易病的,上课时美国人爱把冷气开到最大,我都冷得穿毛衣了,我旁边的那个美国女孩还只是穿个小背心,还是背上是空的那种(其实就是肚兜),一点事都没有,真不知道怎么差这么远.希望大家都快适应啊!