我的心好乱

tanghpUID: 80255

多可爱的宝宝! 先亲一口!

家家有本难念的经, 我想:让宝宝和你父母一起回去,你和你LG也想了很多. 我个人的意见是还是宝宝和你们在一起好. 宝宝的成长一旦错了,就一辈子都错过了. 自己做为是父母来说,要孩子也是在经历孩子成长的过程.也是自己成长的过程,

即使宝宝和你父母一起回去,你留下来,对我而言,我是支持不了多长时间, 如果你和宝宝一起回去,你也会很想你的LG.

再想想吧!

anneq110UID: 161503

安慰一下~~~
真不知道该出什么主意，因为自己也面临一样的问题。。。。。。
祝福

cherubicshUID: 163518

nysabrina:
我觉得看你lg的专业和就业的趋势.如果在这里发展好,你留下比较好.
如果准备回去发展,国内的好工作最好先别丢,国内现在年轻人就业也挺难的.

Exactly. If your husband can find a good and STABLE job in the US, you can always stay with your lovely baby. You don't have to get another degree if you don't really want to. My advisor has 3 kids and his wife stay at home to take care of them. But if your husband is doing research in some "cold" area, or MBA  which is hard to find a decent job here, you may prepare for graduate school or go back to china several years later. It is ok to seperate with your kid of a while, but in long term, it could bring a huge problem...

芷菁UID: 151385

谢谢大家。我还是觉得我边回去带孩子，边上班准备考试的比较好，因为我上班都不太累的，上班时间也有可能看看书，所以还是回去考，看考试的结果再说的比较好。而且我老公毕业以后也是想回国发展的，如果读不了，我在国内等他二年也就是了。

DriverEntryUID: 143979

决定了就好。 GOOD LUCK

ga_geiUID: 167825

你有了这么可的小宝宝,多有成就!我都30多了,现在才来到美国,压力甭说多大了.我没有上过大学,又工作了10,以前学的英语早就忘光了,现在还要准备考TOEFL,上大学,还想生孩子,真是知道怎么办?还是狠狠心让父母把宝宝带归国,你安心准备考试,这对你和宝宝的将来都好.

niceorangeUID: 106911

真是家家有本难念的经阿。。来了美国之后的生活，看我们这些f2们，兴奋过，犹豫过，伤心过，彷徨过。有时候都怀疑我们这么远到这陌生的国度来干什么，一切值得么？虽然我也知道安慰自己，这样的日子是一种历练，是一种财富，但是每次看到这种帖子，依然觉得很难过。。

希望楼主开心点。

xiaoheUID: 162707

谢谢大家。我还是觉得我边回去带孩子，边上班准备考试的比较好，因为我上班都不太累的，上班时间也有可能看看书，所以还是回去考，看考试的结果再说的比较好。而且我老公毕业以后也是想回国发展的，如果读不了，我在国内等他二年也就是了。

I agree with your decision. And I think you can expect something better in this way. If I could choose again, I would make the same decision as you.

Since you have a job, your financial condition won't be too bad. Visit you husband with your baby once or twice a year will be very easy. No problem in getting another F2 visa. Just spend a little more of money. But it's worthwhile.
When you feel it it the right time to settle down either in America or China, you will be very free to make the choice.

Never leave you baby without you. He's so cute. I will cry for him if I know he won't have his mom's hug and kiss for a single day.