a friend ask me

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a friend ask me the question and i give the answer,then the chat is follow.
first time, write something here,so back up me,thank u.

friend:what the secret of affection?i can hardly manage it?
me: no secret,or not a secret,cause u know,
friend:why
me:maybe personality is very important
friend:i think i have no problen with it
me:yes,but maybe you haven't learn to respect and tolerate otherone's drawbacks and affection
friend:i don't know,but i have  paid great attention to this aspect ,
me:so
friend:so what
me:u have to give yourself enough time,to acclimatize yourself to affection,cause affection can't be calculate if u
plunge into it,and then,u can get to the profundity of love and get real love and never lose it, u shoud not ask more,
or give less,no pains no gains,love is bridged by two parts.
friend:no
me:no?why?
friend:i say pains and gains,if u didn't sow and u won't reap in the future,
me:that's the same meaning,haha,just neglect the existence of "no",actually,they have the same meaning.
friend:hehe,maybe ,but i like the latter saying,it give me power to keep on going,
me:yeah,affection is a complex project,
friend:so i am not a designer,i can't deal with it good,
me:everybody don't know what real love is until he or she find it,haha, i know it's meaningless,but i strongly agree
that time elapse and love come,just like the natural process,gains is always after pains.
friend:thank u ,maybe i should learn more about it ,88
me:8,goodnight