这是一位网友给我的来信:
Sorry because I don't think the reason for your quiting is that you have succeeded in finding one.
And sorry also for geter. Because we geters are usually so affected with this forum that it is just natural to expect to find not only nice gt-partner, but also nice gf/bf. But it doesn't seem to be the truth.
Then why am I writing to you?
I write to you not because of your 1-5 criteria, to which neither of them I belong.
I write to you because two other aspects interested me and I intend to contact you.
1 your comment on the link between language and idea;
2 your opinion on "among our ethic group";
Obviously, you are an insightful guy. And I sincerely wish, and believe, that you will have your nice gf, one day. But not now. Because even if you are in the US right now, it's far too early to set up a solid base for both career and family plans.
So, I am saying, haste is not the best way to achieve.
And I'd like to exchange opinions and ideas with you, occasionally.
我给他/她的回复:
Thank you, you words are impressed on my mind and your sincerity strongly affects me as well.
You has the accurate judgement:)that I have not found my girlfriend. And the reason why I ceased my girlfriend-seeking process is that some repellent things always disturb in my thread(announcement for girlfriend) and even insult me. So I have to decide to quit from this forum. However, my holistic searching action is still underway.
Thanks for praising for my insightfulness, yes, I am clairvoyant:)
Thank you once more for your bless and expostulation. I also appreciate the proverb "more haste and less speed". But solid base stems from preliminary recognization.
I'd like to exchange opinions and ideas with you, occasionally, too.
I had never said I would not visit gter forum. Maybe you have a bit misunderstanding.