气死了,今天在cssa上竟看到有人劝人流产的...

suanputaoUID: 127848

有人发信来问他朋友没有医疗保险生孩子多少钱(已经怀孕了), 然后就有人说赶快去流产...
我把他的信贴在下边, jm们自己来看...

第一封:
Abortion!!!!!
May not sound a good idea, but if she can not take care herself at this
moment, for example, financially, how can she take care additional
person,
her baby. Regular abortion costs only couple hundred dollars. Even
during
the late stage, 16 weeks after, may cost $1,000~$1,200. (after 20
weeks?
Man, the guy needs to prepare to be a father)

Delivery a baby is free, hospital can not turn you away even you don't
carry health insurance. It is your decision to pay it back or not.
However, regular monthly check could cost $200~$300/month from her
pocket,
plus other mis. cost.

Last, Amazon frequently offers free condoms or at low cost. Her partner
should definiately request it for sure. Dr. Jie and Dr. Bin highly
recommend using DUREX sensitive product during the business.

Have a wonderful Chrismas.

Richard
第二封:

U!
Your memory is totally wrong, medicaid is only available to U.S.
citizen
and green card holder under certain status. NOT EVERYONE QUALIFIED. I
am
sure she is not qualified. A pregnant woman with no such status may
loss
opportunity to go to school, work, life and etc.

If this is not a good time to have a baby, then abort it is the best
solution. My idea is the best suggestion for her, you should be quite,
and
excuse yourself for what you said. Don't give so many positive images
without true knowledge! You will mass up her life. My idea may not
sound
good, but under today's situation, abortion is a good consideration.
She
is young, and can have baby any time in the future.

Again, what is WIC? free delivery? Diaper? Read the link below to see
what
they offer?
http://www.fha.state.md.us/wic/html/vendor.html

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怎么会有这样的人啊....

johnny1114UID: 198911

都不是什么玩意儿, 冒充自己很明智很理智的样子.k, 让他也怀孕也abort试试去, k

DajUID: 18915

he is wrong ...

stephanie_sisuUID: 201114

人工流产容易造成习惯性流产

没钱还是不要怀孕
否则不论是自己，还是婚姻，还是孩子，都容易粗糙
时代不一样了
光有奋斗的精神来养孩子是不够的
不论是在国内还是国外
强烈要求在高校普及安全套和避孕知识

suanputaoUID: 127848

In his second email he said that "medicaid is only available to U.S.
citizenand green card holder under certain status. "

Is that true?

阿姨来了@-@UID: 115208

原帖由 suanputao 于 2006-12-14 21:46 发表
In his second email he said that "only available to U.S.
citizenand green card holder under certain status. "

Is that true?

sure.

我被告知今年申请medicaid 要出示护照，孩子的出生证明。。。。不是美国公民的不要申请了。
儿子国内生的，不够格。女儿这里生的，可以申请。


没有保险没有钱，生孩子？拿啥养孩子？

生活很实在的，光有精神没有用。

canadasnailUID: 2115031

阿姨真能生

:confused:  阿姨有几个孩子啊?

JeanJWUID: 2224922

It is a small thing. When you decide to have a baby, you have to have enough money to raise a baby. Abortion is wise.

SkyjjUID: 2171572

abortion对健康或者心理上的伤害要不要考虑呢，如果有这个打算，早干什么了，我很反感abortion，除了bb有健康原因，不太负责，对自己，对别人。

SkyjjUID: 2171572

打听好了再生很有必要啊，虽然我要花钱，但是有保险安心了

geschtaltUID: 30489

如果自己都养不活,也只能流产了,否则小孩生下来怎么养啊.
对于正常人来说,好像怀孕三个月以上就可以称之为胎儿了吧,这个时候再流产就不人道了.不过流产据说也很疼,生孩子也疼,还不如疼一次生了算了.

caoebbUID: 2125653

非要生可以回国生啊，花不了多少钱。

盛宝宝的乖翔翔UID: 2155911

其实那个小孩在美国出生就是美国公民可以申请medicaid的，把他生下来也不是那么贵吧，干嘛要流捏？恩？:confused:

spiritzy111UID: 200646

为什么不准备好了再要孩子，养不起孩子应该避孕啊，流产很伤身的，后遗症也挺严重的，很容易造成不孕，习惯性流产，甚至宫外孕，根据个人不同的身体条件，甚至有人因流产而血崩致死的。女人要学会保护自己呀！！！

DreammUID: 116526

据我所知，外国人的确不能申请medicaid，但是孕妇除外，我有两个同学都申请了，同时她们还有保险，孩子生下来就可以申请。

我还听说这边养小孩都给牛奶费的，不知道真假。

如果真要流的话也千万别手术，用药流，这个不伤身体的。:)