comeon作文小组——noramfa11月20日作业

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Agree or disagree: Getting advice from the older friends is more valuable than getting advice from friends at your age. (2007.8.11)


At the mercy of ever-accerlarated updating of socitey and culture,the issue of get advice from older friends or same age around us may take more advantages is soaring by the day.When facing with this deliemma,people's idea cut from different cloths.Most people assert that gain the advice from older friends could get more emphatic help.they base their arugement on the ground that discussion with professor or parents always promote them make a right dicision.Yet other people react to the idea on the other way around and holds that the opposite is quite rantional.After taken every asepect into deliberation,definitely speaking,I believe that advise for both old age and same age is benifit to our idea and disicition but the precondition is they are know about your situation.In the following,i will try to make my position clear.
To begin with,I should affirm that advice from old people can exetude more experience and knowledge.For example,the professor of my psychological class-Mr,wang is one of my friends.If i have some quesition blured in his course,i am willing to knock the door of his office and take a discussion with him.As one of the illustrial celebrity in his area,talking with him may enlarge my view and borden my horizen in the psychological area qucikly.Any besides,enlighten a psychological thinking style to manage things.Thus,askinig for old person is propitious to young people develop their vlaue.But sometimes, it also has exception,after this example,lets spin another picture.My grandmother is an amiable and benign elder.She used to  care of my situation in the daily life and study.Also i am glad to share my value and communicate with her.But,in some problem,like whether go to friends party and back before 12o'clock or make a move and living with roomate without parents.When face these problem,the conflict always begining.As thinking they are the superior to you,assert they are right with your problem is common.
Admittedly,gain the advise for same age people around you also produce considerable troubles.At first,these same age people always be your friends and classmates close around you.Suppose they dont keep secrect with your advise,how about the consequence ?That is so terrible but frequently occure in our case. Moreover,in some acdamic issue,asking for tender experience person with the same age around us may boost us confus with the problem.No one can deny that asking teacher with the problem in your paper may dispatch it easily,but with classmates,we should have a disscussion with a long time.On the other hand,one good point should be mention is that advice for same age people is easy to communicate and they may understand your value without generate gap.As the case I just mention ,i firmly confirm that if i have some prevail issue in my special age, i would never talk with my grandmother but my close friend who is same age with me!Share problem with the same age person aroud you may reduce your stress and relieve your pressure considerable.An authentic research has indicated that with this forthe,most of people prone to gain the advice with same age people around us.
  Obiviously,whenever advise from old people or same people may execute both advantages and disadvantages.When you have some problems to tackle, you may find the ouptimum one with knowledge and value but not tangle with the problem asking for elder or young.