issue51Practise小组第一次作业

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:L:LI agree with the speaker that spending time alone gives one more chance to understand and appreciate the work and mind of others,simply by providing the comparison between the situations with and without othersthereby making one a better companion to his/her co workers, family, and friends. Nevertheless, we should realize that more merits ,including mutual respect and tolerance, well commuication,and high recognization between friends, are also needed to build up the foundation of becoming good partners and companions for each other.

Admittedly, in many situations , the meaning of things we have can  be realized only when we experience the period of losing them,which provide us a real situation to compare what the difference our possessing can bring to our life.To understand this , one need to look no further than the childhood's playgrounds. It is common to see or hear about that during the process of playing games together among several children , sometimes they may hold different opinions up the rules made at the beginning time, therefore ,which might cause  quarrels even fights among these children. perhaps they may feel uncomfortable with each other after experiencing an unhappy time and decide never play with these peers again next time .Yet , after going back to home and spending some time thinking about the details of their unhappy experience ,or experiencing a period of time without seeing the companions, a child will soon realize how his or her friends import to life ,and without their company the life is tedious and not interesting any more.In short , spending a isolated time will help people realize other's merits and meaning to our own life.   

However, only spending time alone is not sufficient to make one a better partner for people around him or her, our everyday experience will inform us that a sense of mutual respect and tolerance is the first step for people to interact and develop healthy relationship with each other.Just like the foundamental principles during the interplay of two democratic countries,respect and understanding are also necessary when we company with other individuals. An apt illustration of this is the operations in an company office, in which a number of workers should cooperate and communicate with each other to achieve the same goals, building their company a more competive one in the increasingly fierce markets.Then ,a high sense of understanding and being tolerant when it comes to different viewpoints and thoughts will help one win the respect from ones cooperators,clients, and even  competitors somestimes, which might help one develop a broader horizion, improve the company's working effectiveness and efficiency, and provide good relationship with its customers.

Another factors necessay in making a good companion is paying essential time as well as attention to communicate with others,which also provides chance to spur high recognization among people.Admittedly, spending time alone provide us the chance to think objectively and make a reasonable comparision without being interupted by the outsider's opinions or behaviors,but no communication for a long time will make two friends become strangers for each other, since sharing time on common interests is the basis principle during the building of relationship.Without knowing others 's likes and dislikes one can not even become familar with another person,let alone being a good companion for  him or her, on the other hand , it is often the common senses on one thing and long time to know about other's habits make two become close friends. For instance,if two co workers in the same office are interested in basketball ,they can have plenty of chance to spent time together enjoying watching the same progams on TV,and discussing it in free time, which can easily makes them develop a further friendship later,therefore becoming good partners for each other in work.


In the final analysis, I concede that having some certain personal time and comparatively isolated space will do good for recognize, accept,and appreciate other ones's values as well as behaviors, which is necessary to enhance the well developed relationship among companions in family , workplace , and even the entire society.yet at the same time , people should also realize the fact that mutual respect and spending time with others to cultivate understanding ,to further communicate , and to develop higher recognization are also key foundamental elements to make a better companion to each other.