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Patient is not alway a good thing, we should take action now.
As the old saying goes: the harshest ones do not have the chances to enjoy the hot Tofu, people should be patient enough to waiting for the lucky opportunities and delicious tastes. Therefore, I totally disagree with the statement that patient is usually not a good strategy, and we should take action now rather than later,because most of the chances not always wait for you at the right time and right place.
Admittedly, people should take action at once in order to deal with certain emergent situations sometime, especially when there happens an traffic accident, or someone want to kill himself, and something like that. If we do not take action immediately, perhaps someone will lose his life or properties. However, we could not meet such events everyday, and most of us should face the common questions and the ordinary life. So, being patient and practicing inner peace is relatively crucial for everyone to have a healthy psychology and mentality to cope with our life. .
The main reason for my inclination is that being patient enables people obtain some comparatively perfect chances, because taking action at once perhaps make you get the unsatisfied chances. For example, when my sister was going to graduate from the university, she was pretty worry about her future and career, because almost all her classmates had got the offers. But, she did not get the offer from a college, in which she could accomplish her career dream, becoming a teacher, even though she had received some other offers. Then, she made a decision that she should wait for the offer, no matter how late the company send the offer to her. In the end, she eventually got her dream job, and became a teacher in a college. Using our imagination, if she do not have any patience, and chooses the former offer at random and at once, how can she accomplish her career dream?
In addition, it is pretty crucial for people to be patient, because patience can help people to choose the correct method to handle the difficulties. That is to say, only when people can think the problems and difficulties objectively and calmly, do they make relative correct decision and choose the proper way to cancel issues. According to the investigation of the psychologist, almost 90 people will make the wrong and silly decisions when they are impatient and want to get some aim instantly, and they may take some improper actions and cause absolutely awful effect. On the opposite, when people in a patient state, they can think and measure the problem more complete and deep, therefore, the patient ones can gain success or the perfect chances easily.
All in all, the conventional understand of “Black dog, Brave win” is a presumably wrong explanation due to the facts. In my opinion, it seems more reasonable when we revise it into " Black dog,Patient Win”.
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