Help me, please.

darling5555UID: 136752

How you guys deal with the sadness resulting from struggling in USA without your boyfriends or girlfriends. I feel like" sadness endless".:( Almost spend three month in tears since I arrived here. I really envy you guys: being a student, accompanied by LG. It's ridicious that I cannot have my fiance with me because I have already got the Green Card. Is there anybody have any idea about whether my boyfriend can come here with F2 if we get married?Help me , please. Everybody thinks America is heaven , but ,for me , it's like a nightmare---every girl or woman here seeking for a rich one, no matter how old or gross he is , everyone's life is screwed up! I don't know how you guys feel? Help me, help, help help,  sadness endless.

落 落UID: 128124

It is quite easy. Go back to see him in holiday.

orangescentUID: 119831

你有绿卡，你的配偶是不可以以F2身份来美国的。两条出路：
1。你放弃绿卡，从移民身份转成F1非移民身份。然后和未婚夫结婚。他再以F2出来。不过，这种方案太冒风险。从移民转到非移民，估计在发F1签证的时候，签证官很难排除你的移民倾向。
2。你回国和未婚夫结婚，然后让他国内申请移民签证。但是做好长期等待的思想准备。我的一个朋友昨天她的老公刚刚在广州获得移民签证，为了这个签证她们等了5年。这5年期间，我的朋友每年的寒暑假飞回国内和老公相聚。她说如果这次签证无法得到的话，他都不准备再签了，因为一个移民签证太麻烦了，时间上耗不起。

落梅UID: 114981

有没有可能以未婚夫身份过来？我只知道对于美国公民的配偶，一个不在国内等移民签证的途径就是先以未婚夫/妻的名义过来（都要去广州领馆签证），然后在这边再结婚，不知道这种情况适不适用于绿卡身份。

westwindUID: 140928

i am alone,no girlfriend, no boyfriend,no green card,little financial aid
well,but i never cry

阿尔木UID: 116425

"i am alone,no girlfriend, no boyfriend,no green card,little financial aid
well,"but when my brother criticize me, i always cry!

luckyUID: 145954

还是别冒险吧，反正时间是要花的。

darling5555UID: 136752

你回国和未婚夫结婚，然后让他国内申请移民签证。但是做好长期等待的思想准备。我的一个朋友昨天她的老公刚刚在广州获得移民签证，为了这个签证她们等了5年。这5年期间，我的朋友每年的寒暑假飞回国内和老公相聚。她说如果这次签证无法得到的话，他都不准备再签了，因为一个移民签证太麻烦了，时间上耗不起。
  Really ?? So they are still wife and husband after 5 years? I feel better  hearing  this, because whenever I say I wil stick with him , my mom says it would never work out, and that tortures me so much.
But now, if they can do , we can do as well!   thank you for this message, you save my life.
   I don't want to cry , too. I know crying doesnot help sove my problem . It's just life is so painful and I can not afford anymore. To tell the truth , I almost want to commit suicide once if it were not for the sim hope that I could someday be with him again. Besides, it's too much for my mom.
Thank you for your help. You are the only ones I can rely on. Thanks , a thousand time.