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After experienced several times of relationships, I still have no sense what LOVE really is.

I don't even know what I really want, I just get tired of playing games, I had it!

Well...maybe I v read too many fairy tales, maybe I v expected too much, I just want to get my love a little bit closer to perfect, isn't it a dream for almost every girl on the earth? I mean that's normal, right?

I v spent a long time waiting for the right one for me, but he never show up.

I guess one popular saying can totally describe my current situation: The wrong one always shows up, while the right one never does...:(

Who is my Mr Right?

Mystery...
Whistling softly in the dark
Is a better cure than anything
For a confused mind searching for an answer

Whistling loudly enough to drown out that little voice inside your head
Is a better way than any other
To prevent miscommunication of feelings

Whistling quickly for a dog
Is a necessary task
If you wish to be a best friend in return

And whistling a tune all your own
Is the only way
To survive this life in one piece
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Whistling softly in the dark
Is a better cure than anything
For a confused mind searching for an answer

Whistling loudly enough to drown out that little voice inside your head
Is a better way than any other
To prevent miscommunication of feelings

Whistling quickly for a dog
Is a necessary task
If you wish to be a best friend in return

And whistling a tune all your own
Is the only way
To survive this life in one piece

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发表于 2004-1-9 18:35:26 |只看该作者
After long time having experienced nothing at all, I wonder when can I get to know when will LOVE come to me.

I don't know what I really want, I just get tired of what is happening around... Maybe I need a big change..

Well...maybe I've been austere for too long... maybe I'v been paying too much attention on those official matters, I don't know why the going suddenly gets tough, why I suddenly expect something to break up the pre-set routine. Or it is the time now? I don't know.

I was once strongly fascinated by a girl and I've always telling myself that she is the one... yet gradually I lost faith in this make-believe, I have to admit that nothing have ever happened and all was my day dreaming.

Yet under great pressure hardly can I escape this routine.. Both my studies and my never-coming girl...I have a picture in my mind, I tell myself that my girl should be of that character, yet is it possible that there will be one?

God knows.
Rien de réel ne peut être menacé.
Rien d'irréel n'existe.

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发表于 2004-1-9 18:42:46 |只看该作者
so you see everyone has his/her own problems. Remember last time I told you something weird happened around me? Well, maybe hard (or too simple) to explain. Well all we can do is to relax... Not worry that much. Anyway, when you wake up the next morning you might be already engrossed with something else..
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Rien d'irréel n'existe.

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发表于 2004-1-9 18:45:20 |只看该作者
Oh,,,,love is so complicated.....I can say nothing about it.
no...: (

but, this song is beautiful...

2005/02/19


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2007/11/22
偶的密码改了。改成连偶自己也不知道的密码。偶logout了。所以,从这天开始,这个ID就算是自封了。成为完全的过去式。很好。
两年前的某人的生日之日,偶决定停用这个号。到此时,其间有反复。两年后的又一个某人的生日之日,偶决定自封此号,这次可是想反复也不能够,甚好。
不是喜好。只是状态。想改变。
过去的仍然存在。如此而已。

某两人,看偶多喜欢你们啊^_^

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发表于 2004-1-9 18:45:41 |只看该作者
hey, the topstairs little girl, what's wrong?
I dont think the separate word, love, has its one definite means. You must discuss it combined with the object and circumstance, and other objective factors. So I dont think u can get the really right idea to love for youself from those stories.
The pure ideality to love is not enough fit for everyone, because we live in the reality not the imagination. The pure reality person is pathetic for he/she is lack of dreaming. And I I think you should explore grope for the balance between the ideality and reality in your mind. And I think you are doing so. I stongly support that only the balance things is constant in our world.
开心法则:
如果你没有不开心的事,你就要开心
如果你有不开心的事,要学会找到开心的事继续开心

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在我死之前,我想吃小熊饼干~~~

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An old topic, a young one, an interested one.

All we have to face to endure to experience.

It is hard to meet the one who can live with you for a whole life. For many divoreces, abandonment, i was afraid of marrage but thirsted for it at the same time.

i am  too ramance to fall in love with someone or something.

God, give me a chance.





当一个东西得到后,才知道其实不是你真正想要的,而你已经为这个东西付出了,,大的不能再大的代价,,,但是也许这就是一种成长。。。

生活还在继续,我还是要艰难的活下去~~~~

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Dear Fran, how is the party?Did it make u a little bit happy??
I agree with nmly's point, the world is not the same as what u imagine,so keeping a young heart is what u should do!
The past things are yesterday, and what u always face is the future!
So wish u had a good luck!:)
如果我还有哀伤...
让风吹散它...
如果我还有快乐...
也许吧...

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Men always think women is to be rescued, I think the love between a man and a woman may last longer if they take each other on equal terms. Sometimes I really feel I need to be rescued, though I always consider myself independent. I know love is real, but it is also too real to be controlled. Where is it? And How far should I go for it? Even if I had it, I might get too nervous about losing it, I wonder when the end would be...
Whistling softly in the dark
Is a better cure than anything
For a confused mind searching for an answer

Whistling loudly enough to drown out that little voice inside your head
Is a better way than any other
To prevent miscommunication of feelings

Whistling quickly for a dog
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If you wish to be a best friend in return

And whistling a tune all your own
Is the only way
To survive this life in one piece

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it is a hard and complex feeling of talking about this subject.

FTD





当一个东西得到后,才知道其实不是你真正想要的,而你已经为这个东西付出了,,大的不能再大的代价,,,但是也许这就是一种成长。。。

生活还在继续,我还是要艰难的活下去~~~~

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发表于 2004-1-11 12:41:29 |只看该作者
wellllllllllllllll

Fram MM, just enjoy the love ........actually, we need the one who we would accompany with each other :)
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Fran, What a romantic gal!
But, if you are afraid of loss, you will not get the chance of love and being loved.
So open your arms and just hold the one who you consider is your Mr. Right.

Though maybe one day you lose it, pls don't be regretful coz it has become one of your precious treasure and experiences, when you are in an old age, you may find that it has become one of your best memories in your life.

So...remember: Hold it with both of your hands when love is coming to you.:)
如果我还有哀伤...
让风吹散它...
如果我还有快乐...
也许吧...

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发表于 2004-1-11 19:06:50 |只看该作者
franchesca, why not try to relax yourself. You know, being too nervous would be no help for a good relationship. On the contrary, you might add extra pressure to yourself and your partner as well. Just take it ease, and everything would be ok with an open heart.
It is always great to be at home!!!

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发表于 2004-1-11 20:01:57 |只看该作者
maybe you had been hurt, and you will never forget it.
the best way to  get rid of the feeling is to get rid of love and never think of what love you need.
the idea of falling in love could make you feel not good now and then.someone would never get true love ,and I was one.
what about you?
just enjoy your life ,forget it and you may get  it!
(if there is something wrong,let me know)

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Enjoy  your free time when you are single  
keep your faith  and believe all your dreams will be reality:D:D
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