Girls charming depend on how many boyfriend she ever has?

franchescaUID: 122155

Do you have a boyfriend? I have always been questioned by people around me, and I replied frankly to those curious men, "No, I don't".

But currently, I found that these "justicers" looked at me with suspicious eyes after getting this frank reply. I had it!

Most of my foreign friends honestly told me that they do consider this abnormal as we are living in the 2004, 21 century. In their way of thinking, never have sex experience till the age of 20 would be an honor that only deserved to be praised in ancient times.

I dislike anybody pressure me into something I don't want, or don't feel is right. Only fools have boyfriends or girlfriends just because they think it's fashionable, or because they think that they should.

I am digging on watching the HBO " sex and the city ", and I think all girls and women should watch it. Single is not a poor way indeed, if you are ready , just go for it.

I'm wondering, does we females have to show our charming by the total amount of boyfriends?

I don't hurry love!

QQsugarUID: 136441

Good words, frans.
A girl is a girl. We should never let any other people take control of our own ships, right? We are the only ones who control the sailing.
ALso, love is free. No one might be forced to love someone else.

tecUID: 114148

girl, just follow your heart. act the way you feel comfortable.don't give a shit about those "justicers", or whatever.
when you are ready for love, for sex, just do it.
but you don't have to feel pressure if you are not ready .
be forced to love ...be forced to have sex....errrr.....that is a misery.....

最初由 franchesca 发布

Only fools have boyfriends or girlfriends just because they think it's fashionable, or because they think that they should.

absolutely right~ that is my baby! :D

franchescaUID: 122155

I long for true love, but when it comes , I ' ve no idea what it means . commitment , responsibility , no freedom , .... .somewhat terrible!

To be honest , I resist restrition. I need choices of my own ., I would like to spend my time freely.

Maybe life itself is full of paradoxes , there is no need to tell right or wrong , just depond on our feelings .

Hehe...tec is right, I'm just not ready yet...:p

genie05UID: 30358

最初由 tec 发布
[B]when you are ready for love, for sex, just do it.
but you don't have to feel pressure if you are not ready .

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i believe most girls are not ready yet, however only few of us realize it .
To them in love is just a fashion.

My classmates always told me that you are such a little gril, it's  too  early for u to be in love,while most of my friends in my university tread me as a freak to be alone, without a bf ever....

...................

fiyaUID: 134210

there's no need to care what others think about you.

just do what your heart tells you to do and be yourself~  :cool:

jieyuhua111UID: 42870

But the question is oneself began  caring about it,not others,that's the point.

qangelUID: 158804

I don't think there is a strict time limit before you are ready to love someone. Everything depends on what you feel. Do it as what you feel is right. You would never know if you are ready before you do. Good luck, lovely girls. Be yourself.

sunny-topUID: 145155

the value of a girl depend on how many boys ever truly loved her,not how many BF she once had~
and i don't think a girl should be ashamed for being a virgin,no matter where she is.we can control our own feelings and our own bodies.never be ashamed, for the one you truly love and truly love you will honor you!

qangelUID: 158804

最初由 sunny-top 发布
[B]the value of a girl depend on how many boys ever truly loved her,not how many BF she once had~
and i don't think a girl should be ashamed for being a virgin,no..

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impressive, couldn't agree more~~~

sunny-topUID: 145155

hehe,i have someone on my mind.i miss him day and night,but he is far away in britain~ we are friends before, only when he is absent that i find he is so important to me:)

genie05UID: 30358

最初由 wyhbob 发布
[B]u can have no sexual bf/gf, but u should at least have a friend of different gender.

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two thumbs up :D

franchescaUID: 122155

最初由 wyhbob 发布
[B]anyway, it's shame for a lonely person today.

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Being alone doesn't equal to being lonely! That's the point! :o