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tesolchina 发表于 2015-5-28 10:59
51) Young people should be encouraged to pursue long-term, realistic goals rather than seek immedia ...
Compared with old times, young men today are faced with unpreceded temptations and stimulus to pursue short-term and myopic goals, such as attaining fame and wealth in one night rather than immerse themselves into fighting for long-term and more realistic goals by working hard and achieve success step by step. However, fame and recognition are built on the foundation of real ability and talent gained by constant practice. Dreams will only be dreams if you don’t try your best to make them come true. Thus, as educators like parents and teacher, it is more essential and urgent for them to encourage young people while looking upwards to the beautiful starry sky and keep hope for the possibly brilliant future, at the same time to be down-to-earth and make a long-term plan for their future.
Some people might argue that if once you have fame and recognition, it won’t be that hard to achieve what you intend to achieve, as fame and recognition are like “social currency”, you could use them to exchange for something you want. For example, Movie stars can get fortune by taking up some ads and propaganda for some brands. From common people’s perspective, whenever they need money to purchase their luxurious houses and conspicuous jewelries, there will be some rich business man initially offer a chance for them to grab the money only asking for a few photos or less than one-minute videos in which they play the main role. They can exchange their fame and recognition for things they want because people trust in or have a respect for them. But how do they get people’s trust and respect? Fame and recognition do not just fall on one’s head like Newton’s apple. They are gained by persistent efforts on some desirable things. Take fame of movie stars for example, in order to gain attention from the viewers, build up the fans group, and expand personal influence, and finally become famous and popular, they have to first look for and treasure every chance to play in a film, put their efforts into play the role, touch people’s heart by resonate their feelings, and even devote themselves into charity and show their love for the weak in their spare time. All these hard work are directed to a long-term goal: at first, being a better man or woman. And fame and recognition will come to you with the accomplishment of the long-term goal, and should not be the main goal.
Dreaming about fame and recognition is useless unless you take down-to-earth actions to fight for them. In this sense, long-term goal is more important, as once they have been achieved to an extremely high extent, fame and recognition will accompany. Further, due to the fact that everyone want to get acceptance and praises from others, it is human nature to put the goal of attaining fame and recognition from others beyond the longevity-oriented and realistic goal. So even if not encouraged to pursue fame and recognition, people will have a natural desire for them. Put a step forward, as educators, it is more necessary to put more emphasize on motivating young people to seek the fulfillment of long-term, realistic goals as it is more difficult for young people to realize the importance of pursing long-term goal.
Surrounded and occupied by social media, it is easier for people to attain fame and recognition than any time before. But we should admit, fame and recognition not always benefit us if they are won in an illegitimate way. For instance, people who earn honor and respect from others by bragging and telling unrealistic lies about themselves might be afraid to be exposed to the public every day. And they might even be put into court and jail if they use this mendacious fame to get fortune which do not belong to them. Fame and recognition are like drugs, enjoyable, delicious but harmful to one’s mentality and lethal for one’s body if not earned in a legitimate and just approach. Young people should be told this point and be persuaded to come down to the earth and work hard, not be stranded in this quandary.
As far as I am concerned, although attaining fame among a small group of people is natural and less effort-demanding if you are really good at one aspect. For example, if you play well in basketball and always a team leader in your school basketball team, it is inevitable to become famous among your campus. But if you want fame all over the country, learning how to present yourself and build up personal brand is also necessary. For example, some less famous actors take part in some reality show to present a variety of aspects of different themselves to the public and attract more eyeballs. What’s more, fame and recognition are helpful for some career, thus, they are worthy of deliberate efforts. For example, sports player often end their career at a very young age, and without fame and recognition achieved through early success, they will lose a lot of opportunities to move upwards and assistance from significant others. Chinese tennis play Na Li is a typical example, without attaining fame and recognition from sports experts in her country through winning some local, provincial and national games, she won’t have the chance to play on the international games and get constructive advices from professional and outstanding tennis coaches, and as a result, she won’t be as successful as she is now in her career life.
In conclusion, long-term, realistic goals and short-term goals targeted at fame and recognition are not contradictory and mutually exclusive, but closely associated and dependent on each other. Without efforts in accomplishing realistic goals and down-to-earth hard work, people will not gain fame and recognition in a legitimate and long-standing way. And if you don’t learn how to present and sell yourself to the public, you can not get enough resources and support from others to achieve a bigger dream. As educators, we should try to encourage young people focus more on long-term and realistic goals because pursuit for short-term goal of fame is more near to human nature, and without the foundation of real ability and talents, fame will be poisonous and won’t last long.
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