Do you accept extreme cases around you?

franchescaUID: 122155

I respect and always try to find some explanation for every existence.

There is a proverb which is mentioned by my American teachers quite ofen. It goes like this: One kind of rice feed one hundred kinds of people.

People have different thoughts, different goals, and different viewpoints of values.

Personally, I think we can't blame the food just because we have no appetite or we've never tasted it.

Plus, we can not deny the whole basket of apples just because the one we pick was bad.

Different food caters to different appetite. It's always been like this, and it will be in this way forever...

gdhdannyUID: 125843

Is there something hidden between the lines?

sydUID: 151948

my sister told me :
don't think everyone should think and act like u, since they can never become a person like u. don't be too carptitous to them.
and as said by danny bro, we are idiosyncratic...

macdullUID: 163098

all existing things are reasonable, i wonder if this is your attitude hiden between the lines. other person can not think ,behave like us ,  right, absolutely right ,but we also can not behave like others. we are ourselves, no need for us to change ourselves just coz' we are hard to others ,we compel others to do what we want. someone who have controlling desire usually have enough confidence and a little quality to assure his belief, just like me ,hoho^_^  .

macdullUID: 163098

actually really few persons can know me or U, and so what? if we think we can ,we can, no need of others strong confirmation, we live for ourselves. But i do not mean i am stubborn ,even obstinate, i mean when we are totally  of something ,just believe our intuition, do it ,take no care others views. do do do do do do do  ~~~~ do it, if it is right as u think!!

franchescaUID: 122155

最初由 gdhdanny 发布
[B]Is there something hidden between the lines? [/B]

The answer would be "no".

I raised this topic just because one of my roomates shows great zeal for denying other people's behaviors( mostly the ones which seem quite unique), it's been more than 3 years already, and to tell the truth, I'm getting annoyed at this nowadays...

太空猫猫UID: 142143

we should accept  others , on matter  how tough they are .
cos we are sometimes tough people !
yes, we live ourselves ,
so we do not have to treat others as ourselves

take it easy !:)

franchescaUID: 122155

I can't agree with you more, kitty! My mama told me on my 18-year-birthday-celebration: "Do not hear what you don't have to; do not see what you don't have to; do not say what you don't have to..." And you know what? She's quite right...

太空猫猫UID: 142143

最初由 franchesca 发布
[B]"Do not hear what you don't have to; do not see what you don't have to; ..

以下省略...... [/B]

hi hi, excuse my poor enlish
i cann't catch u

franchescaUID: 122155

Do not hear what you don't have to hear;
do not see what you don't have to see;
do not say what you don't have to say...

Means don't do anything more than enough...

Make sense? :)

太空猫猫UID: 142143

i see .

sometimes it's hard to keep the balance
but  that's the perfect conddition

franchescaUID: 122155

最初由 太空猫猫 发布
[B]i see .

sometimes it's hard to keep the balance
but  that's the perfect conddition [/B]

Exactly! It is not necessary to make everything so clear... or the world might become dreary that way...