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发表于 2004-7-24 10:48:02 |显示全部楼层

Life is full of unexpected events, the happening of which you have no alternative but to accept. By accepting them, people cannot change the way they go, but may reschedule their own plan in accordance with what is happening.

I am at the corner of such a crossing, and a decision turns out to be badly needed here at the moment. I am gonna think over this problem for a while, and a choice will be made in a week.

There is nothing lost

That may be found

If sought

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发表于 2004-7-24 12:42:15 |显示全部楼层

Good. :)

Rien de réel ne peut être menacé.
Rien d'irréel n'existe.

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发表于 2004-7-24 19:32:14 |显示全部楼层

Nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow, decision making is no more than a temporary sorrow that it won't last long. So don't worry. Your day will come!

Whistling softly in the dark
Is a better cure than anything
For a confused mind searching for an answer

Whistling loudly enough to drown out that little voice inside your head
Is a better way than any other
To prevent miscommunication of feelings

Whistling quickly for a dog
Is a necessary task
If you wish to be a best friend in return

And whistling a tune all your own
Is the only way
To survive this life in one piece

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发表于 2004-7-24 21:33:14 |显示全部楼层

最初由 franchesca 发布
[B]Nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow, decision making is no more than a temporary sorrow that it won't last long. So don't worry. Your day will come! [/B]

:(

I believe to make a decision acts much more than just 'a temporary sorrow'. On the one hand, while seeking for a solution, one has to concentrate on the very subject and therefore evaluate the problem from more angles, which guarantees a more objective analysis. On the other hand, the process of decision making involves in a balance of various factors. When you've decided which to give up, it helps to converge all of one's efforts on a single target.

There is nothing lost

That may be found

If sought

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发表于 2004-7-24 22:14:18 |显示全部楼层

i have nothing to lose so there's not much trouble for me.

good luck to you.

The absence of choice is very, very rare. :) so once you thought you have made a bad choice, please take it easy.

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乱说有理

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发表于 2004-7-25 00:26:09 |显示全部楼层

最初由 gdhdanny 发布
[B]I believe to make a decision acts much more than just 'a temporary sorrow'. 以下省略...... [/B]

Actually I'm totally with you at this point. Decision making can be hard. Almost any decision involves some conflicts or dissatisfaction. The difficult part is to pick one solution where the positive outcome can outweigh possible losses. Avoiding decisions often seems easier. Yet, making your own decisions and accepting the consequences is the only way to stay in control of your time, your success, and your life. I believe this is a significant step for everybody, if you want to come up with a rational decision, calm down first, and then, make a list of options, a set of actions you can take to accomplish your goals. No haste, think it systematically. And remember, always have faith in yourself, no matter what. I believe you can handle it very well...

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发表于 2004-7-31 15:00:18 |显示全部楼层

Life must go on.

Time won't wait us.

A decision is necessary.

But no matter what the decision is.

The most important things are believing yourself and keeping on making great efforts.

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