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发表于 2004-12-11 11:26:25 |显示全部楼层
Today I felt very depressed! Want do nothing, want think nothing! I got a very high score in this year’s master degree entrance examination. But, now, my tutor is women. who achieved her Dr. degree in England just 2 years ago, neither has experience in guiding pupils nor has reputation in research field of oceangeography. Also I do not think she has any project. However, some others, with a low score, are instructed by academic authority in this field, only because they have call at the tutor before! I think it is unfair! Famous teachers mean more opportunity to access frontier research in this field, to take part in some important project. These experiences will be very important in my future work. Now what I can do is just study hard by myself.

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发表于 2004-12-11 13:18:09 |显示全部楼层
I am depressed too.
however, difficulties can turn into oppotunities.
if your tutor is relatively young, you can co-operate with her more and exchange your idears more directly.
you must know, if your tutor is among the best of the field, he/she may have little time giving you instructions, but doing lots of things for himself, such as attending meetings or working for major companies. so just make full use of of your tutor. as for projects and funds, if you and your tutor can work out some valuable papers in your field, they will not be far away.

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发表于 2004-12-11 18:20:07 |显示全部楼层
It is not easy to tell whether a young or an experienced mentor is good for you unless you have further communication with her. What's wrong with women tutors? They could be more sensitive, more careful in the industy. Look at the bright side of it dodo, hope everything goes smooth with you.
There is nothing lost

That may be found

If sought

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发表于 2004-12-11 19:57:06 |显示全部楼层
i donnot think a female is wrong
in fact I prefer a female tutor
but ,
she lake of experience
although she is easy to communicate
but
she has no project
and she is the assistant to the famous pro.
that made her  very busy
and no time instruct me

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发表于 2004-12-11 20:00:49 |显示全部楼层
U've  done  really  good  Dodo.  I  am  expecting  more  good  news  from  u.
巴赫的《d小调托卡塔与赋格》.

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发表于 2004-12-11 20:18:57 |显示全部楼层
every night
when I think I can talk with you in this forum
I will feel very happy

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发表于 2004-12-11 20:23:42 |显示全部楼层
I've read this in an article today. It is said most of the graduate students now is lacking of the ability to do indepent research. So it may be not that bad to have an inexperienced tutor. Even though she doesn't have a lot of research experience, she has more academic idea.
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发表于 2004-12-11 20:38:45 |显示全部楼层
gdhdanny
what you said is really right
even ourselves can not adjust to the new position
don not know how to carry out research by ourselves

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发表于 2004-12-11 20:40:32 |显示全部楼层
especiallly this field is completely new to`me

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发表于 2004-12-11 21:18:16 |显示全部楼层
Go for it! Every expert starts from a freshman.
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发表于 2004-12-11 23:11:34 |显示全部楼层
Hey, buddies, almost all the suggestions have been given out by u. So what is left for me?

Anyway, Dodo, just take me as a example, my legal clinician is a wet-nose instructor to my mind. Yet i m so grateful  for her open discussion and  academic cooperation with students!!

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发表于 2004-12-12 11:13:39 |显示全部楼层
"and she is the assistant to the famous pro.
that made her very busy
and no time instruct me"

--so just try to get to the famous pro.
  in fact, famous pros like young people with emotion. if you can show more emotion to him and his work, maybe you can do the job of your tutor. that's what I 've experienced in my college.

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发表于 2004-12-12 12:39:43 |显示全部楼层
you even not know the true fact in our institution
even the famous Pro. 's own students ask for her instructions
she said"I have no time !

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发表于 2004-12-13 17:10:54 |显示全部楼层
well,
I guess I can do nothing more to help.

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发表于 2004-12-13 17:18:57 |显示全部楼层
Let it be!!

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