About marriage of university students~

joe824UID: 187661

There are some novel reasons to support marriage of university students during their college days I found on the net.

They may easily win sympathy of the teachers and luckily get the passing grade of most courses.

They may swap experiences with other students that gain more understanding and support.

They learn to accept the demands of a family and accrue with experience.

They won’t celebrate a marriage ceremoniously for lack of a sound economic base. Thus, it tends to the improvement of society.

They may set a good example when their children are along with them in class.

Living in college campus is good for child’s development.

A number of children will act as a stimulant to economic growth in campus.

runnerioUID: 152251

I just think it's wierd somehow, after all, we are too young...

gdhdannyUID: 125843

Well, as to me, marriage is still too young for normal college students. Here by referring to "normal", I mean those who get into university under regular education process, namely to gradute at their ages of 22 or younger. Because marriage is such a stable status of a serious relationship based on financial independence and social maturity. Particularly in China, it is not easy to expect a junior or senior college student to take full responsibilities of their social behavior. How much confidence do we have to expect anything further?

Probably there's some exception recently, since we've past quite a few legislative files which encourage people of all the age group to apply for their college studies. Therefore, marriage appears to be quite a reasonable status of living for them.

coffeegirlUID: 137942

the situation is normal for americans, eruopeans,,,,,but not for chinese students, especially those born around 80's.....
before getting marriage, maybe we shall study how to be independent at frist,,
marriage is more real than romantic,,,

jorgeUID: 108878

marriage , now?

imongUID: 140258

FT

marriage is prohibited for guys not yet 22

btw why bother to marry while being an undergraduate? :rolleyes:

joe824UID: 187661

According to a latest survey the volume of undergraduate students in an attempt to marry is only one to ten thousand. Therefore, there is no need to clip the students' wings by any relevant regulations~

davidjackyUID: 135962

I am always thinking that China has been experiencing the period in which the young goes too far from traditional morality and behavior, just as the USA had done about in 1960 -70. probably I am so serious about the status, but I think it is necessary for me to tell some guys younger than me not to try too much new things on campus.

coffeegirlUID: 137942

david, your writing is in a toefl style~~very professional:D:D

joe824UID: 187661

David seems like a man of ripe age, huh~

Anyway, youngster should be allowed to do anything they want to do within the law to my way of thinking.

莫非斯托UID: 198574

最初由 coffeegirl 发布
[B]the situation is normal for americans, eruopeans,,,,,but not for chinese students, especially those born around 80's.....
before getting marriage, maybe we sha..

以下省略...... [/B]

i don't think so ,jf you are a diligent person,you can work hard for your life.
but if you do not have  the character ,if you got married,you would suffer poverty. it is also unfountunate to girls.if chinese people get married earlier, i think divorcing rate will ascent quickly.
To sum up,getting married does not depend on age but if you are really a adult.

joe824UID: 187661

As late marriage can not control the rate of marriage effectively either, how do you know you come to maturity??

coffeegirlUID: 137942

最初由 莫非斯托 发布
[B][QUOTE]最初由 coffeegirl 发布
[B]the situation is normal for americans, eruopeans,,,,,but not for chinese students, especially those born around 80's.....

以下省略...... [/B]

I mean, if the young couple can offer themselves, go ahead,
but if they cannot, and bring family-support to build their own family, I don't think it's a good idea.
I dont have any discrimination of what I said before, in normal circumference, chinese students cannot offer themselves unlike amerians, this was all what I meant.

joe824UID: 187661

Americans are so touchy about being able to look after themselves that your offer of help may easily be taken amiss.