〓DIES IN FLAMS〓 Issue130 by cjlu

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130"How children are socialized today determines the destiny of society. Unfortunately, we have not yet learned how to raise children who can help bring about a better society."

    When the parents are talking about how to train their children to become an outstanding person, the sociologists are cogitating how to bring about a better future. Finally many of them got to a common view that the children should be socialized and it’s the only way for the society to be better. Nevertheless, the most unfortunately thing is not they haven’t found a way to raise children to be more socialized but actually the opposite. They just ignored a fact that only socialization couldn’t lead humans to a better future, instead, the ones who are distinguished from others always did that.
    It is inevitable that a child will be socialized when they grow older and older, the process even began when they were just open their eyes and recognize the face before them. They have to try hard to learn the language others use in order to communicate with others; they are required to adapt to the rules their parents told them, such as “smile to the neighbors”, “don’t stare at others”, “stop at the red light” and something just like that; when they grow up later and begin to shape their own world outlook and values, it’s the most important time for their socialization which will determine how much they can accepted by the society, or in another word, how much they give up themselves and accept the social’s values. Socialization should be understood by two parts, for the children themselves it’s the necessary program to take to live in the world and get their position when interact with their surrounding, likewise, the society need children learn rules in order to help it operates effectively. Without socialization, there will be barriers between each person, and which will lead misunderstanding and totally lonely.
    We have to admit socialization plays a vital role in our daily life and in the wave of social evolution. However, it would be a worse mistake if we consider socialization as the determinant of the future society. Indeed, it’s the percentage how much a man keep his independent personality determines how much potential he owns to change the world. The consequence of over-socialization is awful，for which brings the loss of one’s own dignity and the alienation of
human nature.
    It makes a transition from nature person to social person when one was socialized, in essence. But considering the spiral development model of human society, no society is perfect, at least under certain circumstance. For the society is not perfect at all, completely socialization is obviously not appropriate. To obey the social rules is just the surface of socialization ,the deeper one is adapt to the social’s custom and value, if you was socialized, you have already accept the fact that the social determined your value even you didn’t recognize it. It would be hard for a man willing to change when he adapt to something, too complete socialization will lead to the satisfaction with the existing state of affairs and meanwhile, only dissatisfaction can bring the power of changing. The most precious factor for a better society is creative ability and dissatisfaction, and these are the incentives for people to pursue a better future. Children who can help bring about a better society are actually the ones who don’t satisfied with the current situation and have their own idea of the society. When one trying to become a social person, it’s bound to lose a part of oneself and sacrifice some personal wishes and which will persuade oneself to give up the idea to change the environment they are living in. +《肖申克的救赎》体制化的论述~
    To socialize children is not the real factor which can determine the fate of the future society, and what a better society needs is not just socialization. When a child is socialized, be careful to let him keep some own ability of thinking and critic views, that’s actually the way a child can helps to achieve a better future.

那个《肖申克的救赎》那个是一段引言……还没找Orz不好意思啊^^找了立马贴上~

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见附件吧

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winning亲我回复了~抱歉这么晚才回^^对不起啊~搁附件了^^

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恩，没问题，你重写了好了我再帮你看，不过要到7月份了，我现在想哭。。。T T
2周没写AW了，题库。。。学校的复习也不怎么样。。。亲，好害怕。。。
觉得现在写的作文怎么感觉没有以前的好了，是不是以前的比较简单，或者我思想变僵硬了。。。。。
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我重申下妇女解放的看法
你说S的第二个层面是意识的过渡S，我的这个例子就是针对你这个层面的。
你想，如果所有女子都S成女子是卑微的，是卑贱的，天生就应该不该有与男子同等的地位，那么，今天就不再是今天的样子的。也就是价值观的僵化吧。
亲，现在了解了吗？