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TOPIC: ISSUE130 - "How children are socialized today determines the destiny of society. Unfortunately, we have not yet learned how to raise children who can help bring about a better society."
WORDS: 655          TIME: 00:45:00          DATE: 2009-8-16 17:12:48
As we all say, children is the flower of the future, so as far as I am concerned, how children today be socialized of course lead to the destiny of society. But with the rigid development of the society, we have no idea that what the society will be and what the society will need in the future. Therefore, to socialize the children with our present mind may be fit the future. So that to conduct the children in the way they are interested in may be the best measure to push the society process.
  Socialization is insignificant for a child who will take part in the society. The education of the socialization is inevitable to the progress of a child. At present, with the harmony and sustainable development society, we live a wonderful life, and that most children, just like the greenhouse flowers, are spoiled by their parents or grandparents. The phenomenon makes the children hard to join in the society in harmony, since with the shelter of their parents or grandparents, everything has been all ready for them, they are lack of ability that communicate with others so that the others can not understand what do they concern about. There exists a vivid example illustrate the phenomenon: Ma JiaJue, an undergraduate in Yunnan university in China, killed four men who are all his roommates just because of some trifle occurred when the roommate played cards with him. Ma live in a family with informed parents, and when he was young, he was spoiled by his family, with the mind of egoism, he get an admission and matriculated by the famous Yunnan university. It is his self- centralization and the lack of socialization that lead to the tragedy. The fact indicates the       notable importance of the socialization of the children.
  What is more, the rate of the suicide caused by the pressure of the competition in the contemporary society increased dramatically ,to some extent, some of the event caused by the bad socialization of the suicide when he was young-too much protection by their parents so that impossible to shoulder the burden of the competition. Therefore, socialization is more important in the progress of a child in order to make every child take part in the society well and so that the harmonization of the everybody will not impossible give an impetus to the society.
  As the claim say, albeit, we don not know how to socialize the children who can help bring about a better society. Change the angle of our mind, we may find that it may be no inevitable to socialize children within our purpose. The developed society makes us impossible dare to take the future into consideration since the future are unpredictable that our present needs may not fit for the future. So that the when the children who are socialized within our purposes grow up, their characters cultivated by their intellectual seniority may not keep the pace with the society.
  However, how can we do for our children for the rigidly developing society? In my view, we should conduct our children to the way they like and support them and bolster them to take part in the social activities and study what they are interested in. Commonsense tell us ,interest teaches the much. As well as the fundamental moral sense and law sense of the society must be instilled to their mind. To the individual, he or she can get more knowledge because of the interest ,and to the society ,it can get the experts who utilize the informed brain incite the progress of the groups. We radically concerned about the fact because the much population with much interest makes the fields of society diversity.
To sum up, socialization of our offsprings is important, and how to socialize the children is depend on how to conduct them rather than how to educate them to grow in our ideal way.

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