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8.2日作文
20090807NA Parents should allow children to make their own choices rather than help determine children's future.* A- {( j$ o0 m(

Sometimes people think that parents who help determine children’s future often kill the dream of children, and make them to be normal. However, in my perspective, I insist that parents should help children to determine their future.

The first reason is that parents may make use of the experience by their selves to help their children to plan their future. We have to agree that children don’t have many social experiences as their parents, and most of their experiences come from TV shows or their home member. They don’t have a totally plan for their future. For instance, when we’re young, most of us always think to be a hero or a famous person. It becomes to change when we grow up, most of us begin to get a real goal that fit for the social requirement, we begin to face the realistic of the society, most of us maybe regret about the time we waste on the unreliable dream. However, with the help from the parents, they can supply their children a well-done blueprint to help them to approach a successful life.

The other reason is that parents can help their children to make decision when they face the choice that they don’t sure which one is better. Most of us, in our young age, have found a situation that we can’t make sure which way to go to reach our dream. We may waste a lot of time on choosing a good way from variety choices, because we don’t know what will happen after we make a decision. However, if we discuss with our parents, they will give us their advices, and help us to determine our future.

At last, helping their children to determine their future by parents doesn’t mean children lost their own way in their life. Many people are afraid that children’s lives will be totally control by their parents and they don’t have the choice to decide what they want to be. It is true that some parents do the wrong way to help children determine children’s lives. However, in my view, most of parents help their children to determine their future through a good manner. And the most deferent between making their own choice by children and helping by parents is that helping by parents supply children more right advices. It is obvious that children won’t lost their own way with parent’s help.

Above all , I think the parents should help children to determine their future.

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8月8日独立
20100312NA Agree or disagree? If children want to do wellin school, parents should limit the hours of watching TV programs or movies9

TV programs and movies usually offer children a lot of funny and even no child can defend the interesting TV programs and movies. Many parents are afraid that TV programs or movies affect their children’s grades in the school. Indeed, in my view, I insisted that parents should limits the hours that children spend on watching TV and movies.

First of all, children are so young that they can’t control themselves to be addicted to the TV programs or movies. Apparently, if children cost too much time on these things, they have to reduce the time on their homework, even more they may still indulge in the context of the TV programs when they are in class. So, it is necessary for parents to limited the time that they spend on TV programs or movies.

Second, watching too much TV programs or movies may lead children lost the motion on studying. Study usually is a harsh process, however, watching TV programs or movies don’t need too much thinking and often make children comfortable. If the parents don’t limit the hours, the children would like watching TV programs or movies rather than studying. By this way, they can’t do well in the school.
Third, spending too much time on TV programs or movies, children may affect a lot by the movies which are full of violence, blood, and sex. Why? If the parents don’t control the TV time, many children would stare at the TV all the time and not consider whether the program are fits for them. They may affect a lot by some violence TV programs. And children often like to imitate the role of the TV programs, so they may do some violence behavior in school such as fighting on the school.

In conclusion, there are so many disadvantages if parents don’t limit hours that children spend on watching TV programs or movies. So, parents should control the time that children watch TV programs or movies for their doing well in school.

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