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本帖最后由 anniehal 于 2010-7-22 11:10 编辑
I totally agree with the statement that how children are socialized nowadays do determine the future society. However, we can not teach students to be socialized( simply teach them socialization process). It is the environment they grow up in and the education they receive, as well as their own characters that determine how children are socialized and the destiny of society.
As society develops, education has become accessible for more and more people, leading to a severe competition, which calls for cooperative works. The high-tech times is also filled with information and choices, which calls for (used it already, what about requires?)dependent mind and creative ideals. As a consequence, children who are socialized need to be creative, have independent thought and know how to cooperate with others. Only with these abilities can they be accustomed to society, realize their own goals, and make contributions to society.
However, these qualities that a socialized(socializing, socialized means already finished) child has can not be taught by parents or teachers. What parents and teachers could do is to provide suitable environment and education. It is themselves who learn these qualities in their growth. As a parent or teacher, one can impart knowledge and skills, can teach them to tell right from wrong, but hardly can he teach the children ability of independent thought, creation or cooperation.(personally opinion, too many cans, it’s better to change the structure, or use be able to instead) One reason is that these capabilities are formed through long time practice rather than from a book or a course. For instance, the teacher could teach the student how to paint but she can not teach him how to create a painting even if she knows every specific step, on the ground that it is the idea in one's mind that directs him to create rather than a teacher or instructor. Another reason lies in the fact that most teachers and parents themselves are not equipped with these qualities, rarely could they let the children recognized (recognize) the importance of creation, independent thought and cooperation.
Although, unable to be taught, these quality could still be formed in the growth of a child. By observing the environment a child lives in, he could know what society is like and what quality is required. Through the movies with various stories, he would figure out the most attractive ones are those with stunning imagination and creation, and he would understand the gigantic worth of creation in society. Through the legends of heroes, he would find the exceptional men are always those who make the decisions rather than the ones who follow the decisions, and he would realize the significant role the(of) independent thought plays in his life. Through playing computer games with his friends, he would learn to cooperate with others when faced with difficult situations. In this process, parents are playing the role of guides rather than instructors. They are supposed to provide open environment rather than teach children what to do.
The children are also trained to form these qualities through the education they receive. In the classes, teachers encourage them to conceive their own views toward a topic or to come up with distinct solutions toward a problem. Sometimes, students are required to finish their homework on their own, adding creative idea. Sometimes, they are required to complete a project in groups, by discussing and cooperating with other group members. During the process of education, children form the capability of creation, independent thinking and cooperation. After graduation, they are already basically socialized and are able to be competent to their positions in professional area, establishing better society.
Furthermore, children’s characters also affect the future. The character a child forms during his growth determine how he is socialized in the future. The spoiled children who have received too much focus would have difficulty being socialized. They may be too proud to cooperate with others or excessively dependent on families. But this is unchangeable. Once they entered(?? Everyone is already in the society.) society, starting their own career, all the barricades and hardship they experienced would teach them to be socialized.
In conclusion, it is unnecessary(is it contradicte with what you talk about later??) to worry about whether we could make today's children socialized and create better society in the future. We only need to provide appropriate environment and education, during which, children would form the capability of creation, independent thinking and cooperation, become socialized gradually and lead society to good destiny.
作者的观点是不要关心如何社会化的过程,只要提供适当的教育和社会环境就可以了。
我是学社会学的。。所以这个观点理论上来说很矛盾啊。。
社会化,就是人在环境中教育,转变,从独立的个体变成社会人的过程。
所以,教育和环境都是社会化的一部分,怎么能分开来说呢。。
个人认为文章的题眼是,我们是否已经知道如何把孩子教育得更加好,使其能给我们带来更好的社会。
而不是,谁或者什么在教育孩子。关键应该在于,是否,能把孩子教育的更加好。
当然,作者从自己的观点出发,展开的还是不错的。但个人觉得,起点和关键点有写问题。。恩。
我的:
关键:我们是否掌握了如何培养孩子的方法。
观点,孩子是社会的未来,他们的教育很重要。总体上,我们知道了如何教育孩子给我们带来一个更好的社会,但又还是有一部分问题的。
A. 孩子socialization决定社会的将来。Socialization is the transformation of an independent individual to be a socialized person, involving characteristic cultivation, social skills learning, and the mastery of professional knowledge of specific field. 孩子社会化决定了整个社会的发展,社会文化,社会是否和谐,社会的科技进步发展等等。
B. 性格。1。孩子的性格培养更加open-minded, tolerant. 接受新事物,homosexual. 更加international,easier adapting to different culture. 这带来了一个开放的社会。2。教育孩子爱好和平,更加和谐的社会。3. Creative, 更多科技进步。
这些都可以带来一个更加好的社会。
C. 教育。我们也更加注重学生的全面发展的教育,不仅是indoor的,更是comprehensive, all-round的教育。这对将来的科技创新,带来更好的社会有很大的帮助。
D. 当然我们也面临一些问题。如何更好的使用新科技,让他们服务孩子的健康发展,而不失更多的side-effect,这些问题是一直在讨论的。
欢迎作者再攻击哈~ |
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